A woman had a vision in which her life was a cesspool of misery and stench, she cried out to God to help her, she saw his hand reach out of heaven and she eagerly grasped it and felt his pull as God came down into her cesspool and put his arm around her and said, “Let’s walk this together.” She didn’t like his way but it was better than walking it alone.
Everything that God has made, (pretty much everything therefore) is made to be used according to his clear instructions and when we do not seek out his instructions then the objects, activities, or relationships backfire and let us down.
God having a design for me is not the same as “God has a purpose for me” so what are his purposes for me. Unfortunately his purposes have little to do with any given result that I would want, and certainly he is not as interested in my comfort or ministry or function as I am. Instead he is interested in:
1. My doing good works. I am not created to accomplish any good result just to do the good works (results are his business). What are good works? Letting God use my body parts to live his life through me by yielding my members to him as slaves and instruments.
Ephesians 2:10 KJV For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.
Romans 6 19 I speak after the manner of men because of the infirmity of your flesh: for as ye have yielded your members servants to uncleanness and to iniquity unto iniquity; even so now yield your members servants to righteousness unto holiness.
Saints living in this purpose of God might experience: beheadding, being sawn apart, hiding naked in caves, starving to death, being killed in war, or maybe having their ministry ignored just as Jeremiah did.
And these all, having obtained a good report through faith, These All! were full of faith and had such different experiences. We’d all love to be in the first group, but do you know that would actually be best for you and your Lord? Also, doing well can carry temptations and struggles that are not faced by those who suffer. Also, don’t set a time limit on when God has to bring so much good from the suffering that it all makes sense to you. Some live to see his salvation on earth. Job. Others die and learn his plan in heaven.
2.He wants me to become like his son Jesus.
Romans 8:29 For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.